If you have complex post-traumatic stress disorder (or CPTSD), making the decision to see a therapist is not easy because you have to bring sensitive thoughts and emotions to the surface. It may be more difficult when the sessions don’t align with the idea of traditional in-person therapy you have in mind.
Although there are non-verbal cues that may be missed when you are not in the room with your therapist, virtual therapy is a great alternative that can still offer a meaningful and intimate experience for those dealing with CPTSD.
Here are some small things you can do to get the most out of the virtual therapy experience:
Most important for virtual therapy to be effective, you should have access to a safe and private space for you to meet with your therapist. If the space you’re in is the site where you experienced trauma, or if it is bringing up certain triggers for you, we encourage you to let your therapist know. They can help offer specific solutions and will work with you to ensure you feel comfortable.
To get started with therapy, we suggest these initial steps:
Learn about our team and pick a therapist you feel is a good fit for your needs
Complete an initial assessment to help determine your wellness goals (no matter how specific or general they are)
After your initial assessment, you will begin meeting with your therapist. Sessions are typically weekly or biweekly, however depending on each client and needs, the frequency can change over time.
At Wellnest, our therapists offer several therapeutic models, including:
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT)
Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT)
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
Mindfulness-based therapies
Trauma informed care
Somatic therapy
Therapy is not a one size fits all treatment, so it will look and feel different to each client.
Your treatment can be adjusted as you progress through your sessions and learn what does or doesn’t work for you. If a modality or approach doesn’t feel right, it’s important to communicate with your therapist so you can learn how to work on it together.
Remember, therapy doesn’t always feel good, especially when you’re first starting out. During therapy, you may be unpacking some deep-seeded memories and emotions that haven’t been addressed for a long time, if ever. This can make you feel tired or a bit depleted once you’re done with the session. Self care after therapy is important, and we’re here to help with that too.
Keep in mind that therapy is a long-term treatment, and you are allowed to take your time to figure out what kind of support you need before, during, and after your sessions.
We believe that your complexities should be taken into consideration during therapy. A great way to do this is to have therapists that reflect your unique identity and can relate to the factors that have impacted your mental health.
Over the past few years, we have put together a racially diverse team of over 40 mental health professionals who can deliver a range of services that are anti-oppressive, anti-racist, feminist, trauma-informed, and LGBTQ+ aligned.
Our therapists are also able to provide support that is religiously, culturally, and linguistically appropriate. In fact, we offer services in English and 15 other languages:
Having specific wellness goals can help shape your therapy treatment, but there doesn’t need to be something ‘wrong’ with you to see a therapist. Our therapists are there to help guide you and ask questions you may not have considered. In fact, you may go into the session with one issue and your therapist can help you understand that it’s actually something different that you may need to work on. These open-minded sessions can be the most productive!
We suggest you start by reading through our therapists’ profiles to learn about their areas of focus and approaches. If you begin therapy and feel the therapist is not the right match for you, let us know as soon as possible and we’ll help you find someone else. Our priority is you! We can assure you that none of our therapists will take it personally.
Therapy is not a quick fix. The length of therapy will vary (from several weeks to several years) depending on your needs. It’s important to let go of the idea that therapy will completely eliminate your issues. Rather than trying to reach a final goal, think of therapy as a lifestyle change. The advice and coping mechanisms you acquire during therapy are meant to be practiced throughout your life. Therapy is part of your wellness journey.
The right time to see a therapist varies for each person. There are signs you can look for that signifyindicate the time is right for you. This won’t mean you’re perfectly ready for therapy, but it can indicate that it’s a good idea to start learning about the process.
If you have any other questions, check out our FAQ page.
You can also reach out to us at info@wellnest.ca or call/text us at 437-333-WELL(9355).