Therapy for Anger

Therapy for all types of anger by phone or video

Therapy for Anger

Making the decision to see a therapist is not easy, and it may be more difficult when the sessions don’t align with the idea of traditional in-person therapy you have in mind.

Although there are non-verbal cues that may be missed when you are not in the room with your therapist, virtual therapy is a great alternative that can still offer a meaningful and intimate experience.

Read on to learn some tips on how to make the most of your virtual therapy experience:

  • Use video instead of phone, if possible. A video call will most closely resemble in-person therapy and will allow your therapist to see your facial expressions
  • Choose a quiet and private space that you can sit in comfortably for at least an hour.
  • ‘Set the mood’ for therapy by having a beverage near you, putting your phone on silent, and maybe even lighting a candle. It can really help ease your nervous system!
  • Keep a familiar object around you that you can hold onto or fidget with.
  • Let your family members or roommates know that you are unavailable for the next hour or so. Maybe even leave a note on the door to remind them.

Virtual therapy is definitely a learning curve, so it’s important that you communicate what works or doesn’t work with your therapist. They may be able to offer you personal advice that isn’t outlined here. A good therapist’s goal is to accommodate your needs and provide a safe space so you can focus on what really matters during the session - your treatment!

Benefits of therapy & counselling for anger

Anger is a common emotion that many of us feel occasionally. However, if you are finding that you are always angry, or if it is causing other mental or physiological symptoms, it may be time to seek therapy.

At Wellnest, we aim to address the root of your anger in addition to helping you manage it. Our therapists help you figure out the ‘story’ of your anger, from birth to adulthood.

For example, we can help you understand how experiences during childhood may have instilled in you a ‘fight’ response that has now become your default reaction anytime you encounter difficulties.

By helping you understand the deep-rooted causes of your anger, as well as what triggers it and how it impacts your life, you can learn how to better identify and manage your anger before it feels ‘explosive.’

Therapy can also help you feel empowered, which is especially important when dealing with chronic anger as it is an emotion that can be hard to contain. You are an active participant in the therapy session. You’re taking control and realizing the power you have to make changes in your life.  

How it Works

To get started with therapy, we suggest these initial steps:

After your initial assessment, you will begin meeting with your therapist. Sessions are typically weekly or biweekly, however depending on each client and needs, the frequency can change over time.

At Wellnest, our therapists offer several therapeutic models, including:

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    Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT)

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    Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT)

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    Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)

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    Mindfulness-based therapies

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    Trauma informed care

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    Somatic therapy

Therapy is not a one size fits all treatment, so it will look and feel different to each client.

Your treatment can be adjusted as you progress through your sessions and learn what does or doesn’t work for you. If a modality or approach doesn’t feel right, it’s important to communicate with your therapist so you can learn how to work on it together.  

Remember, therapy doesn’t always feel good, especially when you’re first starting out. During therapy, you may be unpacking some deep-seeded memories and emotions that haven’t been addressed for a long time, if ever. This can make you feel tired or a bit depleted once you’re done with the session. Self care after therapy is important, and we’re here to help with that too.

Keep in mind that therapy is a long-term treatment, and you are allowed to take your time to figure out what kind of support you need before, during, and after your sessions.

Why choose Wellnest for anxiety therapy?

We believe that your complexities should be taken into consideration during therapy. A great way to do this is to have therapists that reflect your unique identity and can relate to the factors that have impacted your mental health.

Over the past few years, we have put together a racially diverse team of over 40 mental health professionals who can deliver a range of services that are anti-oppressive, anti-racist, feminist, trauma-informed, and LGBTQ+ aligned.


Languages

Our therapists are also able to provide support that is religiously, culturally, and linguistically appropriate. In fact, we offer services in English and 15 other languages:

  • Arabic
  • Armenian
  • Bengali
  • Farsi
  • French
  • Hindi
  • Kutchi
  • Mandarin
  • Portuguese
  • Punjabi
  • Somali
  • Sindhi
  • Sinhalese
  • Tamil
  • Turkish
  • Urdu

Frequently asked questions

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If you have any other questions, check out our FAQ page.
You can also reach out to us at info@wellnest.ca or call/text us at 437-333-WELL(9355).